Last year we were supposed to go to the med school Thanksgiving dinner. We didn't go. I was recently pregnant, and it was the end of the semester and M just wanted to leave already.
Pros: Dinner, with no cooking on my part & open bar.
Cons: Dinner, much later than usual & Baby Boy sleep routine ruined.
It's a toss-up.
On a happy note: This year I am thankful for the men in my life: the little man, that has made me a better person, and the big man, that is a wonderful and supporting husband and daddy!